How to talk to a girl through the phone

It feels amazing when you see a
woman who is absolutely beautiful
and you are able to get her to hand
over her digits. You feel like you are
on top of the world, like you could do
just about anything you wanted to. And
then… you come down a bit when you
get home and you realize that you still
have to make that first phone call. You
know that just getting her number is
not enough, not if you want the story
to play out a little more.
You are going to have to make a good
impression and that makes you feel a
little bit nervous. You don’t want to
say anything stupid that will make her
think your just some goof. You don’t
want to say anything that is going to
offend her, cause all she has to do is
hang up on you and you’ll have lost
her. You want things to go smoothly so
that you can escalate things enough
where you can get that first date with
her.
Making that first call is important, it
can be a bit stressful and make you
feel a little insecure. It has to be done
though.
YOU ARE NOT SHAKESPEARE SO
DON’T TRY TO BE –
Trying to be someone you are not is
never a good thing to do. Not if you
want to make a good impression and
you want things to go smoothly. So, if
you are not the kind of guy who can
spit poetic verses at the drop of a
dime, don’t even bother trying.
You really don’t have to.
Think of the first call as a way to re-
establish that connection that she
must have felt with you when she
handed you her phone number. Think
of it as being a way to build on that
connection to the point that she wants
a little more. You don’t have to
completely win her over just yet. You
just have to create some kind of
anticipation inside of her so that she’ll
be inclined to agree when you ask her
to meet up with you.
YOU DON’T HAVE TO TALK FOR
HOURS ON END –
For most guys, trying to keep the
conversation brief is going to be a
good thing. It can’t be too brief, you
need time to build up her anticipation.
On the other hand, going too long can
be a bad thing. You don’t want her to
be excited to hear from you and
excited about the chance to hang out
with you again… only to end up bored
with you because you don’t know
when to hang up.
Calling up a woman that has just given
you her number for the first time can
be an interesting experience, but as
long as you don’t try to come across
as someone who you are not, or try to
make it last too long – you should be
able to find a way to escalate things
just enough that you can ask her out
and have her say yes to you.
You have to be able to make good
conversation with women if you are
going to get good at getting dates and
that does include the phone talk.